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The Changing Face of Benches

10/25/2017

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On the banks of the Fort Point Channel in Boston there is a row of benches.  I've mentioned them before and made friends with a few people who either start their days there after the Pine Street Inn sends them out the door, or who call those benches home.  The faces have changed over time.  Valerie is no longer there.  We used to greet each other with a hug and an occasional sandwich or a couple of bucks passed from me to her.  Then one day she wasn't there.  There is no one to ask what happened, and if there were, I'm not sure I'd want to know.

Now there is a man who has apparently been living on the same bench for over a month.  He sleeps in a sleeping bag on the edge of the waterside, the railing keeping him from falling into the cold and murky water below, sort of like a baby's crib, but a whole lot less cozy.  He is surrounded by bags of trash containing empty food boxes, empty bottles, bits of paper, and I don't know what else because I try not to look too closely, partly out of respect for his privacy, and partly because of my squeamishness.  Sometimes he is out of his bag and shaking his head endlessly from side to side.  He has a white beard and the remains of his long white hair are pulled back from his balding brown  forehead into a ponytail.  We've never exchanged a word.  I've never seen him talk to anyone except possibly to the people only he can see.  Seeing him makes me sad, so sometimes I confess I will walk the other way.

But winter is coming, and today there are torrential rains pouring down at the end of a ridiculously warm October.  I tried calling him to the attention of the Mayor's Office last week. I was told to call 911.  So I did.  Other cardboard beds and cushions from discarded lawn furniture disappeared, but my bearded friend and his bags remained untouched.  

I guess my next move is to bring a breakfast sandwich once in a while and leave it on his bench.  But what kind of society have we become when this is not a shocking situation?  When after a month (or is it two?) nothing has been done and people are so used to seeing him that they don't really see him any more?  And this is just on my little walk to the office.  Whom do you see on yours?  And what on earth are we going to do?
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Susan
11/28/2017 11:29:53 am

I LOVE that you're writing this again!
Seems there was a break in the action on your end . .
and a lack of reading time on mine. Shall resume checking EOW more faithfully, once again. Your obvious talent with a pen (keyboard?) shares both wit and wisdom. So glad you're back!

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